As you’re reading this then I’m guessing you’re already aware of – or intrigued by – the pleasure that can be had from stimulating the prostate. This can result in orgasms, orgasms and yes – even more orgasms!
There are also potential health benefits including
- Improve erectile dysfunction (ED)
- Increase libido
- improve urine flow
- Alleviate painful ejaculation
- Possible prevention or treatment of prostatitis
- Relieve benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) symptoms
I could pretend I considered these health benefits of prostate massage before trying to find the p-spot. The truth is I had heard about other guys’ experiences and that a prostate massage can lead to the most amazing orgasm and yes – men having multiple orgasms!!!
The thought of sticking my finger up my arse didn’t really do it for me – and much to my relief my other half did not offer to do this for me. So, I decided I needed to buy a prostate massager. At this point I had read about the benefits of prostate massage and the type of things to consider before sticking it up but hadn’t really thought about which massager to buy.
On a whim I settled upon the Mantric Rechargeable Remote Control Prostate Vibrator which has an insertable length of 4 inches. For full review click on above.
First time nerves…
Now this was the first (ahem) ‘foreign’ object I had stuck up there and I followed a plethora of advice on the web.
I took a warm bath, listened to some calming music and used lots and lots of anal lube on both the prostate massager and my bum. Remember the anal passage is not naturally lubricated like a vagina.
It is advisable to go to the bathroom prior to a session – for both a pee and crap! Let’s be frank, nobody wants to pull out a sex toy and see it brown. For these reasons some people put a condom on the toy. Hygiene is really important make sure you clean the sex toy afterwards – preferably using a sex toy cleaner.
I placed a towel to lay on to mop up any lube and in anticipation of possible cummage. Despite numerous attempts it just felt uncomfortable and I was too tense.
Abandonment…
Second time success?
Not one to be deterred I returned the following day and – success – I got it in! Once inside the discomfort abated.
Now I am not one to faff about, so reached for the remote control and turned on the vibrations. I quickly ramped it up to the most intense vibration mode.
Fairly soon I felt a ‘tickle’ – however the prostate is a tricky customer and it takes lots of practice to locate and even more to keep the tickle going.
My first experience was pleasurable but no multiple orgasms and ultimately a ‘normal’ orgasm was reached by touching my cock. However, it did feel more intense then normal and my body was shaking during the session. This is commonplace when stimulating the prostate.
The magic position
A simple google search will result in plenty of theorising about different positions to use when stimulating the prostate but whatever works for you works for you.
Personally, I prefer to lay on my back with my ankles pulled back to as close as possible to my bum. This allows easy access to my bum/toy.
I concentrate on my breathing, flexing and tensing myself internally. It is also fun to play around with different levels of pressure on the toy.
Most prostate massagers stimulate externally the perineum and then internally the prostate. The perineum is located between your testicles and your bum. I find pressing the perineum quite hard whilst using a prostate massager really turns me on.
Play around with the positioning of the toy. You will know when you have hit the p-spot and let the fun begin. Go with it and enjoy the moment.
You will want to make sure there are no distractions as when you lose that feeling it can be really difficult and frustrating to get back.
The joy of multiple prostate orgasms
The world is a marvellous place – we are all different, and people experience prostate play in a variety of ways.
Over the past 12 months I have discovered what works for me but I am still learning.
I usually encounter vigorous shaking when stimulating the prostate and often have multiple orgasms. However sometimes it just doesn’t work for me.
Believe it or not, it’s not all about orgasming – stimulation in itself can be great fun.
People often describe a feeling of wanting to pee when they find the p-spot. Usually there is lots of pre-cum when stimulating the prostate and when ejaculating it is often clearer fluid and more liquidy. Some orgasms feel internal and dry -it varies from session to session.
If you want to experience a prostate orgasm it is really important to keep the focus on the prostate – in other words do not touch your cock!
However, I usually finish every session with a normal cock orgasm.
When it goes well, I can have several orgasms in a 90 minutes session – as many as 12. Afterwards I usually feel particularly knackered, physically exhausted and exhilarated If you are planning on running shortly afterwards you will not run a fast time – trust me!
Man up – Not just for gay men!!!
It doesn’t make you gay just because you stick a sex toy up your arse!
You need to man up!
Be open and liberate yourself. Once you experience a prostate orgasm you will keep on going back for more, again and again.
